MANILA, Philippines ? My pastor, Paolo Punzalan (actress Princess Punzalan?s brother), led me to the book, ?Wild at Heart? by John Eldredge. A lot of my Christian friends, including (actor) Sam Milby, encouraged me to read this book. I recommend it to other men who want to know the answer to the question: What does it take to be a man nowadays? It explains why men behave a certain way. It relates that man, through the ages, has aimed for three things: a battle to fight, an adventure to live and a beauty to rescue. You can take this either in the Biblical or everyday perspective. Bayani San Diego Jr.