? When choosing a gown for the prom or grad ball, try to find something you can wear again to other gigs. After all, it's not your wedding gown. If you're in high school, keep in mind you'll be in a lot of debuts and formal wear will come in handy. Ball skirts and corsets are practical separates, but if you'd rather stick to a one-piece gown, be sure you can change its look by swapping accessories and with the right makeup.

? Avoid heavy beading that can make your gown heavy and look dated. Stick to light, fluid fabrics that move well with your body as you dance, and fabrics that drape well. Silk, chiffon, satin, and jersey are your best bets.

? Even as you avoid heavy beading, use elegant accents on your gown. An interesting neckline or lace trim can give it individual style.

? Before you buy the gown, try it on and make sure you can breathe in it the whole night. Bend over, sit, move around a bit before buying it. That way, you won't be uncomfortable the whole night. And don't suck in your belly when fitting it in front of the mirror, or you'll only deceive yourself.

? If you can, bring your dress to the salon where you'll have you makeup done, so you can clearly convey the look you want to achieve to your stylist.

? You don't have to coordinate your entire outfit. In fact, matching your shoes and bag with your dress can make you look too contrived. Try contrasting colors and different textures.

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